The Fruit

As in lay mans saying, "what's the tree so as the fruit". In the family parents has the most powerful and greatest influence to control and discipline their children. They the greatest responsibility to love, care and protect their children especially on growing up years were there will be lots of factors that may influence their children's behavior and character if parents miss to watch their children. But when our kids have grown already were they have there own thinking and principles, were they need to stand on their own feet on the ground, as parents the thing we can do is to watch over them and give them the right advice and remind our children cause they might fall on that very dark deep wheel of misery. 

But even though we are parents we can never say we are perfect and we know everything what's good for our children. I understand being a parent can never be that simple. It is so hard yet it is so loving. When our children got mistake its natural that we yield at them, sometimes because of our anger we tend to say words that we don't expect and mean to hurt them.

I'm sure there were nights before you got to sleep or early in the morning before you get up to your bed, you remember your kids when they were still baby. When you were awaken because your baby cry and you rush to their crib to carry your baby. Those nights that your were disturb from your deep sleep because your baby cries.The changing their diapers and taking them a bath. The most precious time was when you first saw your baby and the very first time you held him to your arms. Isn't it wonderful? 

When our children have grown up, when they need to live on their own lives and settle down. When these time comes the first thing you can think of is the very first time you have them. As a mothers the excitement of seeing your child, while his still in your womb. As to fathers, the very times your held them in your arms.

There is these certain pinoy movie I've watched its titled "Four Sisters and the Wedding" but these movie focused on children and slight on parents but what entertains me is there story of families acceptance and love. Yes, to accept once fault or mistake is so difficult especially if you keep too much pride of yourself. Their amazing love for each other which help them accept.